Information is NOT transformation:

What this means is that no matter what useful information you absorb, it only makes a difference if you act on it and turn it into transformation.

Example: You come here for information on getting your ex back, I tell you

• take things slow (you do not want to rush things and jump back into problems that have not been solved)
• work on one problem at a time (you cannot focus on 20 problems at once take you time and work out the big problems first, they need more attention)
• date again (this makes things fresh and exciting again!)

You leave the page, take the information but never apply the tips to your life. You have just missed out on the TRANSFORMATION that could've made your situation better.

I'm just sayin'

Because you have the information do not mean that you will put it to good use.

What do you think?





  

T-Dub J asks"Are you going to EVER forget that older lady?"

Is there something you can learn by being
robbed at gunpoint?

As t-dubJ explains in the Magic Of Making Up System now

Which you can grab < HERE! >

after your initial contact...you want to set up your
"1st Date" again.

AND...the MOST important part, the secret and
the part nobody else but T Dub will tell ya :-)...is the date HAS
to be EMOTIONALLY CHARGED.

Okay?

That DOES NOT mean 'dinner and a movie'.

because...well...it's BORING...and does not
create a bonding...or in our case a RE-bonding
experience.

In fact, you want to pack in several emotionally
charged mini-dates in a span of a couple hours.

Why?

If you just do 'dinner and a movie' you lose
out on a Sociologically PROVEN principle...

emotionally charged experiences = bond

Look at it in another way.

Last time you went to the bank, do you
remember the person in line in front of you?

Behind you?

Probably not. Me either.

But...

What if while you were in the bank, it
was ROBBED AT GUNPOINT?

and the robbers couldn't get the safe open. The
robbers are livid,  screaming and waving huge guns
around. The tension feels so thick you could
cut through it with a knife.

You are lying face down on the cold bank floor
and can see your breath fogging up the tile below.

You are trembling...because it is eerily silent
for a moment.

"Oh my god!"

"Where are the robbers?"

"Are they behind me?"

"Are they watching me?"

So you slowly move your eyes around and
see a sweet older lady lying right next to you.

She looks a little like Grandma, and you come
out of your own haze enough to realize that she
is even more terrified than you. She is softly sobbing.

You slowly reach out and take her hand in yours
and give her a little squeeze that says..."it's gonna
be all right."

NOW!

Let me ask?

Are you going to EVER forget that older lady?

and...

Do you think she will EVER forget you?

Not in a million Sundays!

Now...I'm not saying to go rob a bank on
your first date! LOL.

But you want to go on an EMOTIONALLY
charged and exciting date...and preferably several
mini-dates in a span of a couple hours.

A short roller coaster ride is one GREAT example.
T Dub teaches you more about things like emotionally
charged dates in the Magic Of Making Up System.

Click Here NOW!

You'll also discover psychological tactics and techniques
you can use to get you BACK on that first date with your
ex again.

What do you think?
                                                                                               
I want "Mind Magic" too please!

...PS If you reserve your copy of the Magic Of Making Up
System through the special link above you will receive a special unannounced bonus called 'Mind Magic' a long with a $10 GiftCard in a few easy steps.

1. Reserve your copy of the Magic Of Making Up
2. Email a copy of your receipt to ME with subject line: (bonuses please) the body: (first and last name and physical address!
3. Sit back and enjoy your bonuses!

Untwine your ex mind, heart and soul right now today & Make Your Ex Return Your Call

Are there 'magic' words you can use
to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions I get
from the over 35,000 subscribers just
like you that are trying to put their relationship
back together.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

BUT...

***********
WARNING!
***********

In the Magic Of Making Up, there's a complete strategy.

<< Get It NOW! >>

If you use this technique alone, without
an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may
damage your relationship more than if
they never returned your call.

****************
What NOT to Say!
****************

Before we get into the actual words, let's
go over what message almost NEVER
works.

and worse...

Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like
"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And...

the EMERGENCY- "Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...

************************************
How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
***********************************

Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
So...
Let's look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to
be plausible.

But more importantly...

************
2nd WARNING!
************

Please have an underlying strategy
like in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.

<< Get It NOW! >>

If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!==> << CLICK HERE! >>

What do you think?

Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back With TEXT Messages?

If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, you know this has happened to you.


You stand there, looking at your phone, your thumb quivering over the keypad . . .


You want him back more than anything. You want to feel his arms around you.


You want him to apologize for everything he said and be yours again . . . to be your boyfriend again. To be your lover. To be your friend . . .


But your thumb just shakes. You think about him out there without you. Out there with another girl.
You feel this awful nausea through your whole body . . .


And you put your phone back in your pocket wondering what the heck you should say.


Well, now there's good news for you. Michael Fiore (who's appeared on the Rachael Ray show among other programs) has come up with a simple method for using TEXT MESSAGES to to drag your man back to you like a tractor beam . . . to erase all the negative thoughts he has about you and to create the relationship you've always wanted with the man of your dreams . . .


"Text messages are the closest thing we have to telepathy," says Fiore. "With the right texts you can short circuit a man's critical brain and awaken those deep feelings he still has for you in his heart no matter how hard he tries to deny them. Just send the right messages in the right order and you'll be amazed at how he 'decides' he wants you back all on his own, without you ever having to beg, cry or even hint that you want him back in your life."


Go watch this short video to learn Michael Fiore's method for using TEXT MESSAGES to bring that man back into your life (and your bed) . . . it works no matter how long you've been broken up, no matter who broke up with who and even if he's seeing someone else now.


But one quick warning: "Please, don't use this stuff if you're manipulative or abusive towards your ex boyfriend. It's very powerful stuff and I only want you to use this if you truly believe you and your ex boyfriend are meant to be together."


Here's the video link:

Click Here!
or watch it above this post!

and come back and tell me what do you think?

Popular Online Dating Activities For Men

Heads up, gents. Online dating can open up new doors of opportunities with a little help from real world dating tips that work. Spice up your matchmaking with some of these ideas.

Looks Count
Comment on how attractive she is. Yes, women do want to know they are pretty, even if they’re online and you can’t see them and have no idea. So in your communications, ask questions that would help you know, but in an unobtrusive way like – how do you wear your hair? And then say how attractive that must look.

Kindness Counts
Point out nice things or the lemonade in life – nice things the other person has mentioned, nice acts the person has done, good things on the news latterly, etc. Be upbeat, and forget those lemons in life. Even in email a person can shout, by using all capital letters. So show manners and kindness. Keep swearing, unkind remarks, prejudice, etc. out of your communications. And “do unto others….”

So add some helpful real-world tips that do work (a lot of the time anyway) into your online dating equations. And come up on the positive side of romance – and enjoy more lemonade!

What do you think?

Popular Online Dating Activities

All types of everyday activities are growing in popularity online these days like sharing photos and greeting cards. In fact, both of these even go hand in hand with online dating opportunities, one of the most popular online activities for singles today.

Before actually meeting in person, many dates get acquainted online first.

Here’s how.

Photos - As a wonderful keepsake of your budding romance, create an online photo album for your new cyber-mate.  Include digital photos of favorite outdoor scenes, pets, flowers, cars, silly moments, your computer corner or laptop, etc.  Then you’ll even have more to discuss during online dates via emails and chat rooms. Search for “photo albums” to find places that store your photos.

Greeting Cards- Regardless of where the person lives, you can mail a greeting card. If privacy and security is an issue, check into renting an inexpensive P.O. Box (check the Yellow Pages). You do not have to be an artist to make something homemade and special for the new friend in your life.  Even making a special, personalized greeting card would be appreciated and show your date that you care enough to take the time needed to make something by hand.  Search your favorite search engine for online greeting cards to send, too. They range from free to low cost and can be sent in a click.

So get online and get active! No need to risk meeting in person until you get more familiar with each other online first. So take the online plunge!

What do you think?

More Popular Online Dating Activities

A couple of popular online activities are sharing recipes and bidding at auctions. And both of these easily fit well into online dating opportunities, one of the most popular online activities for singles today.

To help many dates get better acquainted online, here’s what potential cyber-dates do.
Sharing Recipes – People get tired talking about the weather. So a popular subject to turn to is food. Sharing favorite foods and recipes helps break the ice and even forms friendships over culinary skills – or lack of – and tastes. Search your favorite search engine for “free recipes” to share. Take photos of your culinary creations and share them with your date, too.

Bidding at Auctions – Ebay auctions sell nearly anything and everything! So surf around and enter searches like the dates you were in middle school. Share cool memorabilia photos of old games and toys from when you were a child or when your parents or grandparents were little; The Dating Game, Oscar Mayer wiener whistles, The Partridge Family Album, Bobby Sherman’s Album, 45’s and more.

Online dating can be an educational and fun experience. So learn more about each other and have fun while you’re at it. Take a cyber-stroll down memory lane together and see what’s cookin’.

What do you think?