This is a very STRONG WOMAN!

Hello, everyone!

I came across this site where this woman has been through hell... http://romance-n-relationship.blogspot.com/ ,
and I have decided to post my comment on my blog to spread the awareness of what many women go through.

Long story short her and her ex-husband do not see eye to eye, and he doesn't want their 6 month old baby and treats her like crap.

My Comment:

Doris, you do not need him and if you feel that strong about your monthly allowance then you should take him to court.
You are absolutely right, he should not run away from his commitment but that's where women do mess up because a man will only do to you what you allow. And once you allow it there is no going back.
Once you have a child, that's usually the time the man is being tested and when you will find out if he is a BOY or a Man.
You need to be the QUEEN that you are and take control of the situation and maybe give him some ultimatums, as he's shouting his arrogant terms you come back at him with... (whatever terms you want).
He's not being a man about the situation so he do not even deserve to demand anything.

Doris...Please Buck up!

You have been too nice...

Having a newborn is stressful enough and you do not need to be dealing with a grown man and his crap.
Exactly!!!!

You deserve better and you just need to do what you've been doing, taking care of your little boy and yourself and someone who will have the three traits you're searching for (love, respect, and understanding) will come along.

The Key to this is Patience!

You most likely will not have to tell your son that his father is dead, in a few years you may have found the man of your dreams that will embrace your son as his own and that will be his father and your ex-husband will just be the sperm donor of the past!

I wish you the best of luck!

Readers you know the routine...What do you think?

10 things Men dislike about Women: Response

According to http://josephekwu.wordpress.com/ there are 10 things men hate about women.

1. Men hate the way women jump to conclusions and assumptions without knowing all the facts surrounding the situation.                                                                                                                          Response: I do this because by this time my man has already let me down so many times that we can no longer offer them the benefit of the doubt. And once he clouds up the facts until they start sounding too good too be true I have already began seeing strait through him!
2. Women love to make plans without consulting us first, just as we think that we are going to have a handy weekend and just relax ourselves.                                                                                            Response: I make plans because when we ask "babe, what do you want to do for the weekend?" I get "nothing, it's up to you." So it's up to me especially if the guy works the entire week and think he's gonna rest the entire weekend, the man still has to make time for family time!
3. We don’t want to know your every step of the day.                                                                    Response: In this situation I may have missed my partner and I ask him how was his day and he tells me and then I follow with a "guess what happen to me today etc," sometimes telling what happen in order until the incident occurred jogs your memory of how everything went.
4. We hate your total disregard in our input in decisions.                                                                    Response: Every bit of advice may not work for everyone and if  I am given advice on how to handle something that night and go to sleep I probably have thought of 1000 other ways to handle it in my own way by the time I actually go to handle it.
5. We hate the way you question everything we do, we cannot leave the house without telling you where we are going…                                                                                                                                   Response: Men and women have the traditional code language that only the same sex understands. We just would like to know where you are going what is the big problem? And back to the code men may act like they don't want to know but after a hour of us being gone who's calling the cell? yes, the man is calling to find out where you are! Example:he may not say where are you going before you leave but when you get the call he says something like, "are you having fun, sounds loud" that's just a way to find out where we are.
6. Don’t ask us what clothes go with what because we can’t tell you, we don’t know what you mean     Response: this goes with number 4. We ask your opinion when we think it matters most, if you like how we look in something we know at least 8-10 other man may also find it attractive.
7. Men hate shopping, especially clothes shopping.                                                                               Response: So why do you volunteer to come? Be honest and don't say to help...more like just to complain.
8. Stating the obvious is another great trait of the female of our kind.                                               Response: I especially do this because my partner will ask me where something is and be sitting right in front of it. Instead of first looking he ask, I 've gotten anoid with this and stop answering him until I have seen him look thoroughly. So now, occasionally I will say "your pajamas are on the bed" just so he don't even get the chance to ask me.
9. We hate interruptions if we are doing something, women will call men from the other room and expect us to go to them if they want to talk to us.. Beckoned to attention like a dog would be..                          Response: It is polite to just step out and address the issue right away, this is part of good communication. If we came out and started saying your business in front of everyone then we're acting crazy. We do not mean for it to sound as if we are calling a dog. Just trying to get the issue resolved quickly.
10. Women give out about the toilet seat being up constantly.                                                                Response: you should already know why this is such a big deal for women just for the fact that when you leave the toilet seat up we fall in the toilet "SPLASH"! if we leave the seat up nothing happens to you! Just be curtious. 

I wonder what's next?

What do you think?

Happy Mother's Day Ladies!

This is my first Mother's Day and I am excited, I love my daughter to death!

Today my dear sweety made me breakfast, pancakes, eggs, and bacon yum.

My little girl (her name is M'Kylee by the way, pronounced ma-ky-lee), at only 8 months ate her very first pancakes. Did she love it? Yeah, she screamed when I was trying to take what she had dropped in her chair.

I also have my two step daughters with me, it's gonna be a very hectic and adventurous day.

"HUH?"

I have to go, but leave a comment talking about your mother's day. What do you think about mine thus far?