Hello, everyone!
I came across this site where this woman has been through hell... http://romance-n-relationship.blogspot.com/ ,
and I have decided to post my comment on my blog to spread the awareness of what many women go through.
Long story short her and her ex-husband do not see eye to eye, and he doesn't want their 6 month old baby and treats her like crap.
My Comment:
Doris, you do not need him and if you feel that strong about your monthly allowance then you should take him to court.
You are absolutely right, he should not run away from his commitment but that's where women do mess up because a man will only do to you what you allow. And once you allow it there is no going back.
Once you have a child, that's usually the time the man is being tested and when you will find out if he is a BOY or a Man.
You need to be the QUEEN that you are and take control of the situation and maybe give him some ultimatums, as he's shouting his arrogant terms you come back at him with... (whatever terms you want).
He's not being a man about the situation so he do not even deserve to demand anything.
Doris...Please Buck up!
You have been too nice...
Having a newborn is stressful enough and you do not need to be dealing with a grown man and his crap.
Exactly!!!!
You deserve better and you just need to do what you've been doing, taking care of your little boy and yourself and someone who will have the three traits you're searching for (love, respect, and understanding) will come along.
The Key to this is Patience!
You most likely will not have to tell your son that his father is dead, in a few years you may have found the man of your dreams that will embrace your son as his own and that will be his father and your ex-husband will just be the sperm donor of the past!
I wish you the best of luck!
Readers you know the routine...What do you think?
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