The Rachael Ray Show

Sunday, December 22, 2013

Don't make this crucial mistake...



----->>> "Here's a much better way to get him to pop the question WITHOUT using threats and dangerous ultimatums."

Ladies do you often feel like your relationship is one-sided and that you are the last Spartan standing?

Men do you feel that if your woman give you an ultimatum you would probably leave?

If you answered yes, then you are in trouble but...

There is still hope.

Ladies I know it is a hard and a never ending process of holding your household down. I mean with taking care of the kids and cleaning the house day in and day out, while managing your Small Business from home. Things can go left in a blink of an eye, but you still feel entitled to get that RING, for all that you've been through.

Men I know that you feel like you are getting nagged and your woman is not interested in you anymore, just arguments. And the hard 14 hour days you spend working to provide for your family, only to come home to crazy ultimatums, i.e., telling him you will take the kids and leave if he does not marry you.

STOP!

This is wrong he will never marry you if this is all it takes to leave the relationship. I mean are you really showing your partner that you are in it for the long ride and that you will survive through "for better or for worse? You will never get him to commit to a marriage.

No, and in his mind he feels that you may do this ultimatum thing just to get what you want from him, despite the fact that he may not be ready.

Men women behave in this way because they love you and they feel that they have put in all this time and investment into your relationship, for it to be moving absolutely nowhere. Plus if you are serious and already playing house why not just make it official?

Very discouraging.

However, who says that it doesn't work? Ultimatums?

See you just have to know your partner to know if that would actually have some affect on him. What works for Angela may not work for Bernice.

Bottom Line: Only give an ultimatum if you're ready to hear the truth and are willing to act on it, whatever the response may be. 

Good Luck!






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